I want my life to 'be about'

Are there certain things in your life you want to 'be about'.  Like, what do you want to spend your time on and be remembered for?  The legacy that you choose to leave will be what you were 'about' while you lived.  I am going through an extremely transitional season in life right now, and this is one question I am currently trying to answer for myself.  What am I currently 'about', and what do I want to really 'be about'.  I first and foremost want to be all about Jesus and all that he is about.  That strong calm balance of relentless love and compassion, yet firm and confident in all things.  That is how I want to live, Lord help me...
But then there are the silly little things I hope to 'be about' along the way too.  Like, I want to have a garden of my own.  I want to grow wonderful things from the ground, wonderful flowers and beautiful produce.  This really is a desire that I possess.  The irony is that I am awful at keeping my already grown plants alive.  I water them too late, usually when the leaves are already wilting and droopy but they usually come right back to life, really!  I have one plant in particular that was designed for me, as soon as it looks completely dead I am reminded to water it and within one day - usually I start to see results within the hour, it is perky and full of life again.  But I really want to have part of me 'be about' a real live garden...
hmm... other things I want to be about on that same playing field, in no particular order are: tea - I want to learn how to make my own tea with herbs and spices. Origami - I decided today that I want my babies to only have origami mobiles made by me!

I want to write and read in order to give and obtain knowledge or experience,  I would love to be able to speak another language, I want to travel and not be so spoiled and comfortable.  I want to be less wasteful and more thoughtful in how I consume.  As I write, I realize that I can easily choose these things and 'be about' all of them quite easily.  I want to live a life that is simply grounded in a foundation that Christ has laid for me to grow my roots and sprout and that simply and complexly creates a calm and wonderful atmosphere for others.  This life I want to 'be about' smells so incredible and is so relaxed and fulfilling.  I think these are definitely some things I will choose to 'be about'